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Learning through dogs
My daughter was never a fan of busy playgrounds. For a couple of years, from when she was around three years old, she preferred the local...
Mar 29, 20216 min read
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Learning to trust myself
I've recently begun to feel a deep sense of freedom. My life is much the same as it has been for the last year, with nothing shifting...
Mar 1, 20218 min read
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What did we do today?
I wonder at our role as parents right now. Without the usual activities going on, and with the additional emotional challenges that...
Feb 1, 20215 min read
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A different kind of strength
I'm writing this post from the perspective of a parent of an autistic child with PDA. That isn't to say that my child's autism/PDA...
Oct 20, 20206 min read
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How to do nothing
My daughter is painting a picture and is intensely focused. The picture is of a castle on a hill, with the sun setting in the background....
Sep 23, 20204 min read
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That September feeling...
It's been a good few years since we last went back to school, but September energy is powerful. The idea that this is the month of new...
Sep 6, 20204 min read
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All about conversation
Some years ago, when my eldest son was still a toddler, I came across a book about learning at home. The author had interviewed many...
Aug 26, 20205 min read
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Maths, just for fun
It’s 10pm on a Tuesday night and we're in the sitting room quietly doing maths by candlelight. We look like some austere homeschooling...
Aug 11, 20205 min read
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What is unschooling?
There's a lot of buzz right now around children learning without school, and the different terms used can be confusing. I see the word...
Jul 29, 20206 min read
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Why unschooling works for PDA children
Time outs, naughty steps and reward charts were never on my radar. None of that has ever made any sense to me. Even so, when my eldest...
Jul 24, 20205 min read
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Money, money, money...
We've spent a few days with money on our minds. Mostly because we've just moved house, so there are lots of tempting ways to spend too...
Jul 19, 20205 min read
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Is it fun or is it learning? Does it matter?
There are many things about living without school that continue to fascinate me. Although, when I see these things in action, what...
Jul 7, 20204 min read
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When unschooling means exams
What happens when an unschooler wants to go into higher education? How does a child who has spent years following their interests...
Jun 19, 20206 min read
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Structures and freedom
A few days ago, just before she went to bed, my daughter decided to write down her morning routine. She felt like her mornings would be...
Jun 6, 20205 min read
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Trusting the quiet moments
Sometimes, it's easy to feel confident. Seeing a child curled up reading a book, looking up ingredients to do some baking, or just...
May 29, 20204 min read
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What did we do today?
Well, life in semi-lockdown goes on, and we've had plenty of time to settle into new rhythms. Human beings are certainly adaptable...
May 18, 20203 min read
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Truth to power? Sure, let's bring it on
I was at an event in a local primary school with D and C a few months ago. It was friendly and cheerful enough with lots of colourful...
May 12, 20204 min read
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Self compassion in lockdown times
I started this post about self compassion a while ago and, for some reason, never got round to finishing it. Now feels like a good time....
Apr 30, 20206 min read
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The many benefits of unschooling for children with special needs
I hear a lot of doubt around whether unschooling can work for children with special needs. Perhaps it's because many of these children...
Apr 22, 20205 min read
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Things I wish I had known
A friend asked me recently what I wish I had known when we began unschooling. It's an interesting question. There were lots of things...
Apr 14, 20206 min read
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